How to Be Kind in 2021
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On this national holiday, there’s so much to think about. No matter the year, this is true, but celebrating Dr. King somehow seems more important in 2021. The previous 365 days have been a lot and tensions have been running incredibly high. Even though self-care should be the utmost priority, you should never dismiss how you treat others. As a gentle reminder, here are some of my favorite acts of kindness to help make the upcoming year a more positive place for all.
Make a Donation to a Local Charity
Is there something that you are extremely passionate about? It can be racial equity, education reform, or mental health awareness, or anything in between. From there, find a charity that aligns and donate what you can. The donation can be as big or small as you want, depending on your own personal finances. For so many, even the smallest amount will ring volumes.
Donate Your Time
Sometimes donating financially is an option and that’s okay. Instead, consider donating your time through volunteerism in your local community. I know right now, this depends on your state’s protocols. If you have to follow more strict guidelines, you can also look to donate time on a remote basis. This article from Good Housekeeping shares 21 organizations that are happy to use your help.
Clear Up a Nearby Park
St. Pete is very blessed to have ample green space around the city. A day isn’t complete without a walk through North Shore Park. Whenever I see garbage out, I always try to do my part to quickly pick it up. If that sounds like you, make a morning or afternoon of cleaning up a nearby park. The fresh air will do you so much good.
Buy Coffee for the Person Behind You (Plus Tip Well)
This is the oldest act of kindness in the book. If you’re a regular at a coffee shop either a chain or local, offer to buy coffee for the person behind you. In best case scenario, it starts a chain that will last the entire day. Worst case, it will only cost you an extra $5. While you’re getting coffee, be sure to give an extra special tip to the barista, especially if it’s someone you see frequently. It’s an easy way to say thank you for a cup of coffee well made.
Send Something Special to First Responders
First Responders and Essential Workers across the country have been working their butts off. They still deserve our utmost respect and praise. Have a special treat delivered to any local fire station, hospital, or school. Join forces with a friend or two to deliver donuts, pizza, or a local treat.
Call A Loved One
Isn’t it nice to get a phone call from a loved one? In the day of texting and messaging, it can be as treasured as getting a letter. Although, now that I think about it, snail mail is always a good idea. During these cold winter months, when it can be hard to muster the courage to go outside, give your family a call. This is doubly true if you have any grandparents or senior members who may not be seeing as many guests as they would like. What do you talk about? Anything you like!
One Final Note: On Politics
This has been the elephant in the room for the past one, two, almost five years. 2021 doesn’t seem to change that anytime soon. Politics is one of the most divisive things in our country. It’s important to remember that respectful discourse is okay and can help us grow as a person. Just because someone doesn’t have the same political affiliation or voted for a different person than you doesn’t mean they should be treated with less kindness. Express your opinions in a healthy and non-accusatory way.
2020 was hard. Let’s make 2021 better! If you remember to use kindness on a daily basis, the new year is off to an incredible start! In the words of the great Dr. King, “I have decided to stick to love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.”
Love from Florida,
Katie
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